"In a world of GLASS CEILING SMASHERS, [Golden Girl Finance Founders] Misner and McDonald are two blondes investing in total architectural overhaul." - Dolce Vita Magazine


Rich thinking: 3 steps to a wealthier mindset

November 24th, 2016 by

Start investing all that mental energy into your greatest asset: YOU


A positive mental attitude can increase your chances for greater wealth. The first step is becoming aware of what you need. This acts as a catalyst to searching for a solution. But first, like any fixer-upper project, we need to clear the clutter.   

According to the Institute for Neuroimaging and Informatics at the University of Southern California, the average person thinks 70,000 thoughts a day. Most experts estimate that up to 95% of those thoughts are reruns of past events, or recurring thoughts.   

In focusing our attention, our brains use a process called the Reticular Activating System (RAS). Marilee Sprenger, in her book How Your Brain Controls Your Attention, describes this system as the portal that filters information. How it does this affects what you pay attention to. So, why not use this system to increase your wealth? By simply focusing your attention on what you want more of in life, your brain will seek out opportunities for generating wealth and your well-being.

More than a feeling

Of course, mental habits are not easy to break. However, incremental changes, over time, will create big shifts in how you view the world and yourself. A few little tricks can help put you on a better path to greater clarity about your goals and greater awareness about the actions that will help (or hinder) their achievement. 

Getting started

Step One:  Buy a plastic band in one of your favourite colours and place it on one of your wrists. Each time you catch yourself ruminating on a negative idea, snap the band to help you reset your thinking pattern. At first you may be snapping a lot! But, if you stick with it, you’ll soon find that, as your awareness grows stronger, your snapping decreases.   

Step Two: Like overcoming any addiction, it helps to replace one habit with another, preferably better one. For example, if you find yourself fantasizing about some catastrophic event, (“I’ll run out of money before I die!”), replace it with a positive statement. (“I’ll always have enough.”) Mindset expert, Dr. Carol Dweck, suggests adding “yet” to the end of any self-defeating statement, as in “I’m not financially independent…yet.”  

However, if you find yourself coming back to the same fear, then you may need to do more than simply re-frame your thinking; you may need to take more direct action. For example, if you’re unsure about your retirement readiness, all the positive phrases will not replace the benefit of working with a financial planner on a solid retirement plan. Positive thinking joined with positive action is the key.   

Step Three:  One of the most powerful emotions is gratitude. Instead of focusing on what is not working, give equal time to what is working. Take a moment to give thanks. 

The power of gratitude

Appreciating your life in the here-and-now is an instant wealth builder. 

Jun 28 2017 10:57pm

Business - Get Listed

Golden Girl Finance was designed for women to more effectively connect with the financial services community, national brands and local businesses of all types - supporting entrepreneurs, innovators and thought leaders. It's the modern way to engage with financially savvy females. Best of all, it's simple, easy to use, and your listing is completely free.

Create your profile and start engaging with the female demographic today.

Join Now →


Golden Girl Finance is a leader in financial digital media - the modern woman's guide to finance - making the discussion of money and investing real, relevant and relatable (and shockingly entertaining). With a voice that reaches millions of women across digital, print and television platforms, our goal is to engage, educate and empower women of all ages to take charge of their finances. We do not invest on readers' behalves nor offer personal advice. It is this unbiased and innovative financial literacy approach that our community values and trusts.

goldengirlfinance.com Worldwide:

Canada USA
A financial voice for women. Get Started Now.